You can break your life down into three categories: relationships, work/career, and mental/physical health. Consider each fully–does each area of your life flow? Do you see miracles occur? A miraculous life evolves when you feel like a rockstar in all three areas. It is possible to feel that way!
Notice your sensations when you think of a certain area. Did your stomach churn at the mention of career? Did you soften at the mention of health? Did your muscles tense at the mention of relationships?
The first step is knowing where to begin.
I’m asking you to look at your life objectively, without judgment, without self-hate. Instead of saying, “I’m unhappy,” “I feel stuck,” or “I want ____ (fill in: your dream job/relationship/health goal), but it’s impossible”, like a scientist say, “This area isn’t working. Something needs to change.”
Often, if someone is a rockstar in one area, there is a struggle in another. Yet, we feel so comfortable in certain areas that we just dive deeper into the comfort zone, neglecting the other area(s).
For example, your job is a dream. You get every opportunity available–it flows. But your health isn’t as glorious–you’re not happy with your body, you cry, lose your temper often, or you just don’t feel content. Rather than diving into your health to make a change, you just dive deeper into your job.
“To get something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.”
It’s that simple. Your thought patterns and practices need re-vamp. Try something new. Let me be clear: YOU do not need to change and become someone else. Just your thinking and habits need to be re-evaluated to figure out what’s working and what’s not.
Don’t have to listen to me. Look at your own life. Think about a miracle that has happened recently. Did you find a twenty on the street? Were you told how much you were valued? Did you lose weight? There is behavior in that area of your life that is working! Perhaps you trust yourself enough to let that area flow. Perhaps you’ve made a change that you’ve never tried before.
The practices that are working could be many. Now you have to figure out what and why. A miraculous life begins here.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on what is working and what isn’t… Share your story in the comments below or email me!